Q: How many sessions will I need and how often should I come in?
A: There is no set number of sessions that you should have. You will learn techniques that will benefit you and that you can incorporate in to your life after the very first session. It depends on you personally. I don’t ever tell people they have to come a certain number of times. Some people experience it out of curiosity and find they love it, but it isn't a path for everyone. I love my dedicated students, they become my teachers and friends. It always has to be people who are committed to transformation and open to really experience all of life's emotions. Some clients come every week, because they really get the value of this work, and they want to be masters.
I have a few clients that I've been seeing for years and years. Those are the relationships that are especially wonderful, because we are truly learning from each other and watching tremendous growth take place, both in us individually and as a Tantric team.
Q: Is this counseling?
A: Counseling is for the mind. You can be in your mind all day long and you will still be in place of anxiety. This works on a body and spiritual level as well as the mental. So it addresses the physical imprints, and communicates directly with your soul to find out what action needs to occur in order for a healing to happen, as well as finding out how to support that opening after the revelation.
Q:Is this full service?
A: I don’t make promises as far as what is or isn’t going to happen during a session, because I often don't know. Each session is different because I tune into each person's body and individual needs, which can be very different from their expectations.
I'm interested in working with people who have open minds and can release their self limiting pictures. Tantra is about sharing love and energy without goals or agendas. the term "full service" doesn't mesh with the spirit of intention in tantra...actually putting expectations or labels on anything for that matter
Q: What do you wear during a session?
A: I have no hang ups about my body. I may could in various states, depending on the situation. whether topless, nude or sensual clothing, a bra and sarong. Again, I just go by my intuition, and what feels appropriate.
If it is wise for the husband to retain his semen during lovemaking for the sake of energy retention, is it not logical that RECEIVING semen would add to the energy level of the recipient?
Therefore, for the open and loving couple, does it not also make sense that the couple receive as much positive energy/semen ?
A: In both Taoism and Tantra the focus is on ejaculate RETENTION as a source of energy and conduit to higher realms and a more mystical connection between partners. This is incredibly healing to women as the focus is not on HIS ORGASM or HIS EJACULATION. This ads to her shakti and to the ‘magic spark’ of the relationship as a whole.
Male ejaculation is something extremely special that “masters” only do once a week at most. Both the man and woman CELEBRATE the rarity and sacredness of this event making it a ritual as he knows that retaining his semen is essential for him, his partner and the depth of their relationship.
Women do not ONLY receive positive energy from male ejaculate, she may also take on negative energy, anger or even his karma!! a woman gains from receiving his yang energy even if he does not ejaculate
Q: I was on the internet and came upon the goddesstemple.com site and am interested in what "Tantra" truly is.
A: Tantra is a body (books, oral and written traditions, asanas, techniques etc) of information originating in India between 2,000 and 6,000 years ago.
Q: I've heard about it, but never really knew what it is. I guess from reading a lot of the different goddesses' descriptions it is some kind of therapy or learning about the art of sexual enhancement ? ?
A: Yes, it can be very effective for overcoming "sexual dysfunction" "impotency" "pre-mature ejaculation" and is definitely "artistic" in it's approach to enhancement, as well as healing for the psyche, mind and physical body. But it is many things and has limitless benefits. Deeply relaxing, integrating sex and spirit, making intimacy and connection with another more profound, therapeutic/sensual and intuitive tantric massage are also elements I explore with seekers (students and devotees of the Goddess or God-essence)
Q: So, I guess my first question is, what, exactly is it ? I mean I can't figure out if this is really therapy, which it sounds like it is, or just a front for (excuse me for saying this) prostitution.
A: I do not engage in prostitution or any illegal activities and my sessions are not for the purpose of sexual gratification but rather to expand your awareness of your body's inherent abilities to feel pleasure, to experience the power of the calm and centered mind, and overcome and release limits to bliss, such as fear, shame and guilt.
Q: Being very sexual myself ( I think I am a sex addict with an enormous sexual appetite that gets me into lots of trouble) I am wondering if this would be a way to heal myself of this. . . or if it would just further it ? I'm not sure what to make of all this.
A: Tantric sessions may prove very helpful in this regard because the focus is on relaxing, having no goals and communing with your partner rather than "getting them off" it is a place that we all knew when we were kids, but as soon as we adapted modern society's hang-ups and issues we denied ourselves full access to huge amounts of joy and ecstasy.